I think you’re constantly making decisions that are sometimes difficult to sow into the great love remaining great.
If I hadn’t seen all the other amazing things about Jacob that were there and if I focused on this one phone thing being a problem I could have missed out on the love of my life.
We can’t just shut people down because something isn’t perfect.
He’s great in real life but phone was just super, super tough.
One of the only issues we had was that phone thing and even in marriage it’s still something we have to intentionally work on because it’s just not natural to him.
I was writing the book part of the time while we were dating and I was learning things that were helping our relationship.