During the earliest years of development, they work as hard as they can to make their mothers proud.
Similarly, if a black man feels like he’s appreciated and he’s serving his purpose, he’ll give a black woman the greatest love of her life.
So, keep your expectations high, but never forget to uplift your guy.
However, if these men perceive that they are being unrecognized or undervalued by the women whose opinions matter to them, they could, ultimately, become disconnected from these women, feeling as if they have failed in a role that is essential to their existence – being anything and everything to the women whom they care about the most.
Certainly, I have felt on numerous occasions – whether warranted or unwarranted – the sting of a bruised ego, and there is no doubt in my mind that the majority of men have experienced this feeling as well.
Regrettably, lack of communication ensued, arguing commenced, and ultimately, these men became disconnected from these women as a result.