Stop sending love notes and poems, unless you want her make fun of you with her friends, by showing them what a romantic clown you are. If I find the guy who first wrote something in that language, I’m going to break his face…
Every pathetic loser uses that language, and they use it for constantly, it’s gotten to be like second nature for them, some of them even use it in their daily lives, in essays and on tests out of sheer reflex, they’ve gotten so used to writing that way it’s a natural reaction now (yeah yeah, I’m telling you, this is real).
By pointing out your hesitations, she’s bound to assume you’re an insecure person. If you feel so inclined to explain yourself, wait to do it when you’ve met in person — and be confident about your reasons for joining.
The scenario: “I got a message that said ‘Obviously you’re cute, but I’m just having trouble believing that this is actually you because you seem too good to be true.
They should disguise the signals of interest you send out to your sweetheart, they should lead her to the following line of thought: Text messages are an excellent way to establish connection with your girl without showing excessive interest.